If you have a sister you understand the "sister bond." If you don't, I will try my best to explain it. My younger sister's name is Jamie, she is a Wild child. We have had a difficult past, but we have always fought for one another. Long story short, was are birth sister's adopted into the SAME adopted family, by DIFFERENT people.(I usually use utensils at this point to show a visual) We have the same mom and dad by birth. Lord this is hard to do over a computer screen. My adopted parent's didn't have the license to adopt Jamie, since she had birth complications so, then my adopted aunt adopted her. This would make her my cousin by adoption!
If you are still with me, Awesome! We have had different childhood's growing up. I will admit that. When you have a sister, it's like you have this person who understands everything about you! This can be both good and bad depending on your situation. Ex Sister 1: "Were you out with so and so, who I don't approve of" Sister 2 "Noooo?!" Sister1: "Why do you even bother lying." lol
So back to Jamie and I. She is the risk taker, the doesn't over analyze anything and Goes for it! She has dyed her hair every color possible, Gotten numerous tattoo's and piercings. I don't think she knows this but I am jealous of that aspect of her personality. I am more of the pro and con list kind of girl. I dye my hair dirty blonde in winter and more blonde in summer. I have 2 tattoos on my feet which get covered everyday.
She calls herself Switzerland and me Germany. This is because I have no problem with face to face confrontation and Jamie would rather die. She takes the role of the calm sister to my emotional highs and lows. I think this might also have to do with me being older! I am so very very protective of her. She is my best friend and the one other person who knows everything about me. She has seen the good, the bad, the ugly, the depressed, and not only has seen it but has been there right next to me. We say we should have been twins, because we can just look at each other and KNOW exactly what the other is thinking.
It's one of the hardest things being away from her. I call her and text her probably once a day (if not more). I stalk her on Facebook religiously. But what can I say that is my job, I'm the older sister. She is the one that has gotten me through the most. I love my little JayMe :)
This almost made me cry. I miss being bonded with my sisters, its like i dont know them anymore...
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